Here's the deal. If I had a lot of money, and I mean A LOT OF MONEY, I would spend it all on clothes and accessories for myself and my daughter. Maybe even Baby Daddy, too. I work for a fashion designer and beautiful, expensive fabrics are always in my face. I have (childless) co-workers who spend hundreds of dollars on a pair of shoes and truly believe they got a good deal. While admittedly I quietly hate them for this, I do not sit in judgement because you can bet your ass that I would do it if I could. This is what I want now, and cannot have: